Group Sex & Threesomes: What You Really Need to Know

Group Sex

A lot of people want to know more about group sex but are too afraid to ask. In our society, talking about having sex with just one person is taboo.

There isn’t really a great resource for people looking to find out more about group sex. You just kind of have to figure it out through experience. 

Group sex itself is among the most common sex fetishes in the UK. 

The possibilities go on, as group sex is just having fun with more than a couple. 

The thrill of inviting someone new into the bedroom, or simply having double or triple the number of body parts to play with, can be a truly exhilarating experience.

Threesomes

Couples look for someone to invite into  a threesome to add a bit of extra fun, or to go for steamy nights out that end with multiple people piling into the bedroom.

Having a threesome seems to be the ultimate dream for a lot of people. Whether you’re a woman who really wants to explore playing with other women, a man who really wants to have sex with two women at the same time, or any other combo of people and desires, threesomes can be a very alluring concept.

 

Yes, they’re just as fun as they sound — as long as you do them the right way.

It probably won’t save your relationship

Some seem to think that if they’re having problems in their relationship, a threesome is a way to make things better by adding something different and exciting but more often than not it doesn’t.

 Trying a threesome as a way of testing the waters and having some kinky fun, now that’s different!.

Threesomes can be a great way to explore yourselves and the relationship in a safe way, as long as you’re both on the same page.

Chemistry is so important

 Finding three people who all want to have sex together can be tricky.  it doesn’t always work to just grab someone for a threesome and hope for the best. The chemistry has to be right.

Planned a threesome?, make sure you make time for the three of you to hang out beforehand. That way you can make sure you’re all vibing before proceeding with the sex.

Don’t play favourites

Foursomes

You might think that threesomes and foursomes are  very similar, but there are definitely some differences.

When it comes to sex, even just adding one more person can drastically change the dynamic and also add another level of fun, too.

DON’T forget Chemistry is still important!

Foursomes can be a little easier in terms of making sure the dynamic is comfortable. . A foursome evens things out and can make everything feel a little more equal. 

Whether you’re a group of friends or two couples getting together for a little adventure, it’s still important that everyone vibes and there’s good chemistry throughout the group. If things are off even just between two people, it might become uncomfortable, and you don’t want that.

Group dynamics are just as important in a foursome as in a group project. If someone’s not pulling their weight, it makes things a whole lot more challenging.

It doesn’t have to be all about the sex

Before the sex, maybe  have a few drinks together. After the sex, maybe you all decide to watch a movie together, or part ways.

Sex is great, but don’t forget that you’re allowed to all hang out too. Sometimes that actually helps things feel more organic..

Sex parties

Sex parties may sound intimidating, because you never know exactly what to expect from a sex party, but in general, there are a few do’s and don’t.

Always come prepared

Sex parties can get a little chaotic, and messy.  Bodies will get sweaty. Things will get heated. So it’s important that you come prepared.

Swinging –

 

This one isn’t about investing in a new sex swing, although that can be fun as well. Swinging refers to couples or married partners meeting up with other couples and ‘swapping’ sexual partners for the night.

Sometimes, it can mean a foursome or more-some between couples, or a twosome with the remaining partners watching. Once again, it takes a little bit of experimentation and a willing couple to find what really gets people going.

Swinging refers to couples or married partners meeting up with other couples and ‘swapping’ sexual partners for the night or longer.

Exhibitionism –

Exhibitionism is one of the popular UK sex fetishes that is also known by a very British word: dogging.

Brits are well-known for driving to certain locations, parking up, and having sex in their cars, for the mutual pleasure of onlookers waiting in the car park.

Dogging is just one form of exhibitionism but there are many other ways!

Exhibitionism is a very common fantasy that comes with the added thrill of potentially being caught.

Of course, it is illegal in a public place. But that doesn’t seem to stop the  public from trying it.